The Butt Whisperer: Intuitive Spirit & Body Work

November 2014<br />David
Above Photo Uploaded: November 2014
Techniques: Deep Tissue,
Sensual, Swedish Massage,
Reflexology, Lomi Lomi...

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new york city
$ 90 / 80 minutes
$ 110 / 100 minutes
$ 135 / 100 minutes
$ 150 / 120 minutes

About David's Massage

I'm reopening my practice after a year off and relocating to the east coast. It feels wonderful to be back!!

I am an intuitive and skilled spiritual counselor, bodyworker, sacred intimate, and healer who has been studying and giving bodywork privately since 1979, professionally off and on since 2003. Touch is a spiritual practice for me -- affirming the unity of spirit and body, using a range of modalities and modes of communication to celebrate the wholeness of self and the sacred, erotic potential of the body.

I receive a lot of bodywork (I think everyone should), and every modality I encounter informs my work. All the stuff I like gets integrated into my own personal style of touch. You'll recognize elements of Swedish, deep tissue, reflexology, Body Electric, and Lomi Lomi for sure, and I couldn't begin to tell you what all else has crept in over the years.

I work happily with folks of all ages, races, genders. I work with a lot of Trans men and am totally comfortable with men of all body types.

At home, I work on a table, primarily using pure fractionated coconut oil. It's good for your skin, it washes out of fabric, and it's almost entirely without scent. I believe full body massage to be an essential element of holistic healing and health maintenance. Inevitably, all engagement on this level is therapeutic, sensual, and erotic. It can be soothing or adventurous or ecstatic, or all three and more. During our time together, you decide where you want to receive touch and where you don't. Please arrive for your session having recently showered. If you need to shower here before we start, no problem, but the time does count as part of our session. You choose the degree to which you stay clothed/draped or not -- just choose whatever will allow you to feel most fully present and blessed in your body. My keeping my shirt or shorts on is part of my commitment to be present with and for you at every moment.

I specialize in butt touch and have been giving presentations and leading workshops around the country for a number of years. If butt play is something new or intimidating to you, I can definitely help. If you are interested in any kind of internal touch (prostate massage, for example), please do a light cleansing before we begin.

If you are interested in a Sacred Intimate mode of engagement, I am happy to talk about what you want from our session and how I can help provide that. Please ask if you want to know more about Sacred Intimacy work.

My druthers are to play classical music when we work together. Feel free, though, to supply a disc or two of any music you want to hear. Alternatively, ask for no music at all.

For out calls when I don't bring a table, we can use either a bed or padded floor for touch work. I've gotten very adept at working this way; you won't be disappointed.

Until I get to know you well, I will solicit your feedback often during the session. We can converse or maintain quiet otherwise, whatever ensures you the best experience possible. The session begins and concludes with a moment of blessing for your physical self and your life. I am confident you'll feel the joy in both body and spirit.

What I ultimately guarantee is a spiritual connection with you. I promise to be fully present for you, regardless of how we choose to use the time. Some clients ask for a session composed primarily of speech or meditation. Other clients want to begin with a greater level of physical engagement. The way we spend the time is up to us. The cost is determined purely according to the length of our session.

People ask about tipping. Here is my philosophy:
If a session is especially meaningful to you, yes it is fully appropriate to offer a gratuity. Extended or distant travel for an out call can incur extra costs, obviously. Please don't be shy in inquiring about the money aspect if you have any questions.

Thanks and blessings!


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  • June 09, 2013


    Excellent Masseur! David has great, strong and smooth hands! An amazing touch - he knew exactly where and how much pressure to apply. David also asked for feedback during the massage - love that. From beginning to end - David was very accommodating. I like more pressure on my upper shoulders and on my feet. I'm also sensitive on certain parts of my body and he avoided those. David's work on my hands and feet and back were GREAT. I could feel the stress leaving from my body immediately. His massage studio was also very relaxing - soothing music and surroundings. Very strong massage table. Definitely recommending him to family and friends. And will be making another appointment with David. Male massage review by Gary (1 review)
    Masseur Remarks:
    This was one of those appointments that remind me why I love doing the work. It was a great connection from the first email onwards, and a joyful and spiritual time with you in person. Come back soon!
  • July 15, 2012


    This review is long overdue. I contacted David for a massage a few days in advance, and he was very accomodating. His location is easy to find, and is a splendid, welcoming home. His massage space is upstairs, and he showed me around and invited me to use that fine shower he describes. It was indeed one of the best in S.F. I'm sure. The massage itself was equally splendid - a very comfortable mix of excellent therapeutic work with a nice sensual touch throughout that kept me both relaxed and aroused. David also asked for feedback and encouraged me to let him know what parts I most enjoyed. It was all in all an excellent experience, and the ending was sublime. At the end David even shared some lovely plums he had just picked from the tree outside his window-they were just as delicious as the rest of the experience. I look forward to seeing David again, I think I may have found my regular masseur after some considerable searching. Thanks David. See you again soon, I hope. Male massage review by Ken (6 reviews)
    Masseur Remarks:
    A pleasure. Glad to share the time, the shower, AND the plums (I need to start preserving some for the *off* season, though!). Blessings!!
  • June 05, 2012


    I have seen David twice in chicago. I wish I could book him regularly. He is very special. He is entirely professional. We talked before we met the first time and ended up scheduling on my birthday. He sang for me when I arrived. He checks in consistently with you, is fully engaged with you. This man has a gift. He takes his work very seriously. It Is clear that he loves what he does and I was in bliss both times. The second time was that much better because I completely trust him with my body. He is funny, sexy, and sweet. It was a beautiful experience and connection with him. I can't wait for the next time! Male massage review by david (4 reviews)
    Masseur Remarks:
    And I want to relocate YOU to San Francisco, so we can connect more often! A special pleasure for me both times, and I felt fortunate and honored to have been part of your birthday. I hope to see you again SOON! Blessings, David
  • March 08, 2012


    I am quite selective about who I go to for bodywork. (I used to be a CMT and will admit to being a bit of a massage snob.) David's technique is excellent, he is extremely intuitive and great at finding all of the knots and places that need extra attention. I felt totally comfortable with David, which is important to me as a transman. Like many FTMs, I have large scars and numb areas on my chest, he did great chest work on me, which can be very difficult for me to get from most massage practitioners. Additionally, I was just getting over a migraine when I went to David, his work on my neck and back was amazingly helpful. I cannot say enough about how great this massage was! I felt renewed and refreshed in my body and spirit. Male massage review by Jakob (1 review)
    Masseur Remarks:
    Thanks for the chance to let my hands sojourn on your bod. I'm glad I was able to help lift the migraine. That massage left me feeling energized and blessed. See you again soon, I hope.
  • February 18, 2012


    David is an absolutely amazing masseur. There is so much I could say about him; it's hard to encapsulate a review here. However, from the first call with him to when his hands began their work on me, I could feel a connection with him. It was fortunate for me that David was traveling to my city, and I was able to book my first session with him. At the time, I was seeking a session that was both therapeutic and sensual. What I received was a holistic massage that left me feeling completely connected (body, soul, spirit). I can't recall having a session that left me feeling as blessed as I felt when I left David. His spirit is open and freely giving. My session was amazing, and all the elements I needed were there. He's so very attractive, with a wonderful voice that can put anyone at ease, no matter how stressed they may feel. After my first session, I noticed David was returning to my city 10 days later, and I jumped at the chance to meet with him again. The feelings of being centered, calm, and connected have not left me and I can only dream of the day when I'll have another session with David. That day will come soon, as David's work is worth traveling for. You can get bodywork from anyone (clearly with so many options on this site), but it is very few men that will cause you to crave another session several weeks after. David is just that exceptional. Male massage review by Dave (2 reviews)
    Masseur Remarks:
    I really value the connection we made -- it had a palpable spiritual impact on me, also. Hope to see you again soon. Any city, any time. Blessings to you, always.
  • September 11, 2013


    I was so bummed to learn that David is leaving to go the east coast. He has given me many massages and he is so wonderful. David has a heart and hands brimming with love and caring. I urge everyone to book a session with him before he leaves next month. You will be happy you did. I will have two more sessions before he leaves. Male massage review by Frederico (3 reviews)
    Masseur Remarks:
    I am happy about everything that's waiting for me in NYC, but I get teary-eyed about leaving people here. The bond we build during sessions is/has been an important part of my life. Thanks for sharing this with me. Blessings and some very big hugs.
  • March 25, 2012


    David was visiting in San Diego so didn't have his table along, so he was very accommodating by coming to my house. We had to use a bed, but once he started working on me he kept going until all of my aches and pains were gone. He definitely likes feedback during the work and he seemed to really get into finding all those tight places that needed an extra touch; even the balls of my feet and toes were feeling better when he finished. He ran over to get all of me worked over. I would love to feel his hands again. Male massage review by Steve (4 reviews)
    Masseur Remarks:
    Thanks for the feedback. I think I ran overtime because I just didn't want to stop. We found that synergy between the giving and receiving that makes this work so mystically satisfying to me. It was a remarkable connection. Blessings.
  • December 26, 2011


    I only need two words to review this masseur: "Yes please!" David delivered everything his ad promised and was professional from start to finish. I appreciated his direct and honest communication style, both over the phone and in person. As someone who has paid for more than a few massages before, I can honestly say that my experience with David was not only sensual and therapeutic, but also relaxing and joyful. Never once did I feel any pressure or judgement about my body, my desires, or my decision to seek his services. This type of encounter was exactly what I was looking for when I first signed up for MassageM4M. Male massage review by Ryan (1 review)
    Masseur Remarks:
    Ryan, thanks for the positive feedback. It's nice to be appreciated for the things that matter most to me: being respectful, attentive, capable, and celebratory. Looking forward to whenever I see you next. Blessings!
  • December 20, 2011


    I called David after suffering some spasms in my upper back. He scheduled me within 24 hours, as I recall. Parking is easy in his neighborhood, but he's also just a couple blocks from the N-Judah train. It's true, he has the best shower in San Francisco, which I used before and after the massage. Everything about the massage was sensitive and thoughtful, I never had an impression he was "phoning it in" - which I've experienced several times with other masseurs, very annoying in such an intimate experience. I enjoyed the classical music (all French composers that day) as a welcome relief from shapeless new age soundscapes other masseurs use; it gave me something to focus on rather than tune out. I believe him when he says whatever music the client wants is fine, he asked before putting it on. Since this was a pain-relief massage, I wanted to know how to keep this from happening again. Because I was interested, David told me what he was doing and how it related to my upper back problems. When there was nothing to say, he was silent, not gabby. He also gave me very good tips, as I was dressing, on what to do over the next 24 hours to make the most of the massage and accelerate healing. It all worked. David also suggested a frequency for follow-up massages, as well as offering referrals to practitioners of other therapies. It was clear that my comfort was most important, there was no pressure to give him more business. I will definitely start budgeting massage into my life, it's much better as a preventative than as a pain-management treatment. I completely trust David with my body. Male massage review by Allen (3 reviews)
    Masseur Remarks:
    It was great spending the time with you. Thanks for honoring me with your trust. And for some reason, yeah, massage seems to go REALLY well with late Romantic French composers. Who knew....

More about his massage services

Varies, Please Contact
Morning, Afternoon, Evening
12 Years
Deep Tissue, Integrative Massage, Lomi Lomi, Reflexology, Sensual, Swedish Massage
Massage Oil, Biotone Massage Cream, Coconut Oil
Wide Range
incall, outcall, hotel, travel
David is a queer academic and activist, theatre artist, sex educator, clergy-person, and healer. He has practiced yoga for over twenty years, and is an experienced voice and breath coach as well. Massage is one of the talents with which he was born and a skill he has honed over the years.

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